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Paint the City Purple Campaign™
How We Support Survivors & Communities
Our programs are designed to raise awareness, build resilience, and provide safe, healing-centered spaces for survivors and communities affected by domestic and gender-based violence.
What is Gender-Based Violence(GBV)
On behalf of the Paint the City Purple Campaign™ (PTCP), we stand firmly against all forms of Gender-Based Violence (GBV), which is a serious violation of human rights, dignity, and equality. GBV encompasses harmful acts directed at individuals based on their gender identity, often targeting women, girls, and marginalized groups, but affecting people of all genders. It includes physical, emotional, psychological, and sexual violence, as well as coercive control and economic deprivation.
GBV thrives in environments where power imbalances, societal norms, and systemic discrimination allow abuse to go unchecked. It impacts individuals in families, schools, workplaces, and communities across the world. GBV is not just a personal issue; it’s a public health crisis and a barrier to social justice and equality.
At PTCP, we are committed to raising awareness, providing support, and advocating for policy changes to combat GBV and create safer, more equitable communities. We believe in the power of education, partnership, and collective action to prevent GBV and empower survivors to heal and reclaim their lives. Together, let’s work towards a future where everyone lives free from violence and fear.
RED FLAG ALERTS
Recognizing early warning signs of a potentially abusive relationship can be crucial. Here are some red flags to be aware of. Recognizing these behaviors early on can help you identify unhealthy patterns that might escalate into abuse. Trust your instincts, and don’t hesitate to seek help or set firm boundaries if these signs appear.
Controlling Behavior and Jealousy
Early signs of jealousy or possessiveness, such as wanting to know your location at all times or discouraging you from spending time with friends or family.
Quick Involvement and Intensity
They push for commitment very quickly or claim intense love soon after meeting, often trying to isolate you from others to “focus on the relationship.”
Blaming Others and Refusing Responsibility
They never accept fault, often blaming others for their problems, including failed past relationships, work issues, or even minor daily inconveniences.
Frequent Put-Downs or Criticism
They make frequent negative comments about your looks, career, or intelligence, often disguised as “jokes” but making you feel inadequate or embarrassed.
Extreme Mood Swings
Their emotions shift rapidly, from intense affection to anger, which can be unsettling and unpredictable. They may react disproportionately to small issues.
Intimidation and Threats
They make threats, either overt or subtle, to make you feel insecure or fearful about leaving the relationship.
Pressure for Physical Boundaries
They push or pressure you into physical intimacy, disregarding your comfort level or personal boundaries.
Disregard for Your Feelings and Opinions
They belittle your ideas or emotions, making you feel “silly” or “overreacting” whenever you express discomfort or voice your needs.
Women Empowering Women Workshop
Welcome to the Women Empowering Women Workshop, a monthly gathering designed to uplift, inspire, and unite women from all walks of life. Whether you’re 18 or 80, this is your space to connect, grow, and thrive in a community that believes in the power of women supporting women.
Why Join Us?
Are you ready to:
• Build your confidence and embrace your unique strengths?
• Develop life-changing skills for personal and professional growth?
• Meet like-minded women who share your journey and ambitions?
• Discover strategies for self-care, resilience, and success?
Our workshops are tailored to help you achieve all this and more in a safe, inclusive, and encouraging environment.
How It Works
Workshops are held monthly, and you can join us:
• In-Person: Enjoy a potluck-style gathering where we share food, stories, and support.
• Virtually: Participate from the comfort of your home via Zoom or Google Meet.
Each session focuses on a different topic designed to empower you. Topics range from self-care and mental health to financial independence and effective leadership skills.
What You’ll Gain
By attending, you will:
• Learn: Practical tools and strategies to overcome challenges and achieve your goals.
• Connect: Network with an inspiring group of women who understand and support your journey.
• Grow: Develop skills and confidence to lead in your personal and professional life.
Upcoming Topics
1. Building Self-Confidence: Owning Your Power
2. Financial Freedom: Strategies for Women at Any Stage
3. Healthy Relationships: Setting Boundaries That Work
4. Time Management: Mastering the Art of Balance
5. The Power of Networking: Turning Connections Into Opportunities
What Our Workshops Look Like
Each session is thoughtfully designed to ensure you leave feeling inspired and equipped with actionable insights. Here’s what to expect:
1. Welcome and Icebreaker: Get to know your fellow participants in a fun and relaxed way.
2. Interactive Presentation: Learn from expert speakers and facilitators.
3. Group Activities: Engage in meaningful exercises that bring the session’s topic to life.
4. Networking: Exchange ideas, stories, and resources with other women.
5. Reflection and Takeaways: End each session with a renewed sense of purpose and empowerment.
Who Can Join?
This workshop is open to all women aged 18 and up who are ready to:
• Invest in themselves.
• Share and learn in a supportive community.
• Make meaningful connections and create positive change.
Whether you’re a college student, a working professional, a mother, or an entrepreneur, this workshop is for YOU!
Join Us and Paint the City Purple
Ready to take the next step in your empowerment journey?
• RSVP Today to save your spot for the next session.
• Invite a Friend and share the power of connection.
In-Person Potluck
• Bring a dish to share that represents your culture, a favorite recipe, or a meal that brings you comfort.
• Let’s bond over food, conversation, and mutual support.
Virtual Option Available
Can’t join in person? No problem! Participate virtually and enjoy the same engaging experience.
Get Started
Join a movement of women empowering women. Together, we’re building stronger communities and a brighter future.
Contact us for more information or to sign up for the next workshop:
COST:
FREE for members, and;
$10 per workshop for non-members
Donations are welcome!!
Date/Time: TBA
Let’s grow, connect, and thrive—one workshop at a time. Together, we can Paint the City Purple!
Teen Safe Dating Workshops
Our Teen Safe Dating Workshops provide teens with crucial information and tools for building healthy relationships. Sessions are held in October and February, with a special summertime series of in-person workshops that run weekly for four weeks, or virtually through Zoom/Google.
Details:
Topics vary each session. FREE for members; $10 for non-members.
Dates and times TBA.
Here’s an expanded look at each workshop topic, including suggested activities:
Understanding Healthy Relationships
Content: Explore qualities like trust, respect, honesty, and equality.
Activities:
• Role-playing Scenarios: Teens act out examples of healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors.
• Group Brainstorm: List “must-haves” and “deal-breakers” in a healthy relationship.
Recognizing Red Flags
Content: Identifying warning signs of unhealthy or abusive relationships.
Activities:
• Red Flag/Green Flag Game: Present behaviors, and participants decide if they’re healthy (green) or unhealthy (red).
• Story Analysis: Break into groups to analyze fictional relationship stories and discuss red flags.
Effective Communication Skills
Content: Teach active listening, assertiveness, and conflict resolution.
Activities:
• Active Listening Exercise: Pair participants and have one share a story while the other practices active listening.
• Conflict Role-Play: Practice resolving minor disagreements respectfully.
Consent and Boundaries
Content: Educate on the importance of asking for and respecting consent in all situations.
Activities:
• Consent Scenarios: Discuss what consent looks like in various situations, such as dating or social settings.
• Personal Boundaries Map: Teens map out their personal boundaries and share strategies for communicating them.
Dating Safety Tips
Content: Provide tips for staying safe in dating situations, including using technology wisely.
Activities:
• Safety Planning Workshop: Develop personal safety plans for meeting new people or handling uncomfortable situations.
• Tech Safety Audit: Teach teens how to secure social media and dating apps against cyberstalking or harassment.
The Impact of Social Media on Relationships
Content: Discuss how online interactions influence dating dynamics.
Activities:
• Healthy vs. Unhealthy Online Behavior: Analyze social media posts or messages for signs of good or bad communication.
• Digital Boundaries Checklist: Teens create a checklist for what they feel is acceptable online behavior in relationships.
Building Self-Esteem and Resilience
Content: Empower teens to build confidence and cope with challenges.
Activities:
• Affirmation Journaling: Write daily affirmations and discuss how self-love impacts relationships.
• Resilience Role Play: Practice responding to common relationship disappointments, like breakups, in a healthy way.
Peer Pressure and Group Dynamics
Content: Equip teens to handle external pressures in dating.
Activities:
• Pressure Lines Game: Practice saying “no” to hypothetical peer-pressure scenarios.
• Discussion Circle: Share real-life stories of peer pressure and how to handle similar situations.
What to Do in a Crisis
Content: Learn what steps to take if you or a friend is in an abusive relationship.
Activities:
• Resource Scavenger Hunt: Locate local and online resources for relationship help.
• Survivor Story Sharing: Share age-appropriate survivor stories (real or fictional) and discuss support strategies.
The Role of Empathy in Relationships
Content: Teach the importance of understanding others’ feelings and perspectives.
Activities:
• Perspective Switch Activity: Teens describe a situation from both their and their partner’s perspectives.
• Empathy Circle: Group members share their feelings on various relationship challenges while others listen without judgment.
the love shouldn't hurt project
An event running from 2025 through 2026
Our Promise to You
By the end of this workshop, we hope you feel:
• Heard: Your story matters, and your voice is powerful.
• Supported: You are part of a community that cares about you.
• Empowered: You have the strength and tools to take the next steps in your journey.
We are honored to be a part of your healing journey and thank you for trusting us to walk alongside you. Let’s begin this powerful experience together.
Survivor’s Stories
Welcome to the Voices of Resilience Workshop
Thank you for joining us for this empowering and transformative experience. This workshop is designed to provide survivors of domestic abuse and gender-based violence with a safe space to share, learn, and grow. Here’s what you can expect from today’s session and how it will help you build resilience for the future.
What This Workshop Looks Like
1. Safe and Supportive Environment
• This is a judgment-free zone where your story and feelings are respected.
• We have counselors and support staff on hand for anyone who needs assistance.
2. Guided Storytelling Sessions
• Participants will share their stories in a structured, supportive manner.
• You’ll hear from others who have walked similar paths, finding solidarity in shared experiences.
3. Interactive Activities
• Engage in exercises designed to help you process emotions, build confidence, and develop self-care routines.
• Activities may include journaling, mindfulness practices, and group discussions.
4. Educational Segments
• Learn about the dynamics of abuse and the impact it has on survivors.
• Explore tools and resources to navigate your healing journey and empower your future.
5. Celebration of Strength and Resilience
• Acknowledge the courage it takes to face adversity and rebuild.
• Celebrate every step, big or small, toward reclaiming your life and identity.
How It Helps You Build Resilience
1. Understanding Your Journey
• Sharing and listening to stories can help validate your experiences.
• Recognizing that you are not alone fosters a sense of community and belonging.
2. Gaining Practical Tools
• Learn strategies for managing stress, building boundaries, and fostering self-love.
• Explore actionable steps for regaining control and setting goals for your future.
3. Strengthening Emotional Resilience
• Develop coping mechanisms to face challenges and setbacks with confidence.
• Practice mindfulness and other techniques to reduce anxiety and promote well-being.
4. Building a Support Network
• Connect with others who understand your journey and share similar experiences.
• Discover local resources, such as shelters, hotlines, and counseling services.
5. Empowering Your Voice
• Sharing your story helps reclaim your narrative and remind you of your strength.
• Advocacy opportunities allow you to inspire change and give hope to others.
Safety Consultation
The Paint the City Purple Campaign™ (PTCP) offers professional, confidential, one-on-one advocacy sessions designed to help individuals transition from unsafe situations to secure and empowered futures. Our Comprehensive Advocacy Services Include:
24/7 Support: Access to dedicated advocates anytime you need guidance or reassurance.
Safety Planning: Customized strategies to ensure your safety and peace of mind.
Self-Care Techniques: Tools to promote emotional and physical well-being during challenging times.
Assistance with Protection Orders: Expert help navigating the legal process.
Family Intervention: Rebuilding connections and fostering understanding with loved ones.
Program Details:
$100 per month
Available for up to 3 months
Your safety is our priority. PTCP is committed to empowering you with the resources and support you need to rebuild your life.
Contact us today to begin your journey toward safety and independence.
PTCP – Advocacy You Can Trust.
triad community healing day
We're partnering with Lifestyle International Realty & Healing Home Movement for Community Healing Day!
October 4, 2025
12:00 PM - 6:00 PM
Belews Creek
7455 Craig Rd, Belews Creek, NC
- Free Resources & Door Prizes
- SocaFit Danceathon with Healing Home Movement
- Purple in the Park Activities
We Need Volunteers! + FREE Non-Profit & Community Resources
How to Participate in the Paint the City Purple Campaign™
Thank you for your interest in the Paint the City Purple Campaign™ (PTCP), a global initiative committed to ending domestic and gender-based violence. By signing up as a member, you are taking the first step toward creating a safer, more inclusive world. Follow these steps to join and start making a difference today:
Step 1: Sign Up as a Member
1. Visit the PTCP Website:
Navigate to paintthecitypurplecampaign.info to access the membership registration form.
2. Complete the Registration Form:
• Provide your name, contact information, and location.
• Indicate your preferred level of involvement (e.g., volunteer, event organizer, donor, advocate).
• Review and agree to the PTCP Consent Form, which outlines the campaign’s goals, values, and commitment to ethical advocacy.
3. Submit Your Registration:
After completing the form, click “Submit” to officially join the campaign. You will receive a confirmation email with further instructions.
Step 2: Understand the Mission
• Symbolize Solidarity: Incorporate purple lights, decorations, clothing, and more to visually express unity.
• Raise Awareness: Share educational materials about domestic and gender-based violence with your community.
• Foster Change: Partner with local organizations to advocate for survivor support and accountability for perpetrators.
Step 3: Prepare for Action
1. Mark Your Calendar:
The campaign runs from the 4th Monday in October to the 1st Saturday in November. Plan to participate in events and initiatives during this time.
2. Organize or Join Events:
• Collaborate with your community to “paint” buildings, landmarks, and public spaces purple.
• Plan or attend fundraisers to support survivor services and advocacy programs.
3. Engage Year-Round:
Members are encouraged to organize and support fundraising and awareness events throughout the year to sustain momentum.
Step 4: Spread the Word
• Use social media to share campaign updates, survivor stories, and educational resources.
• Encourage friends, family, and community members to join the campaign and participate in local initiatives.
• Tag PTCP in your posts and use official hashtags like #PaintTheCityPurple to amplify the message.
Step 5: Access Member Resources
As a PTCP member, you will receive access to:
• Toolkits for planning awareness events.
• Educational resources to distribute in your community.
• A network of like-minded individuals and organizations working toward the same mission.
Together, we can paint the world purple and create a future where everyone feels safe and respected.
If you have questions or need support, use the contact form.
Paint the City Purple Memorial & Healing Workshops
Purple Legacy Remembrance:
Purpose:
To honor the lives tragically lost to domestic violence while providing a safe space for families and friends to share their grief, find support, and preserve the legacies of their loved ones. These monthly workshops are designed to foster healing through community, guided by compassionate professionals and therapists
Monthly Workshop Agenda
1. Welcome & Opening Remarks
•Duration: 15 minutes
•Acknowledgment of attendees and loved ones lost
•Inspirational message from a PTCP professional or therapist
•Moment of silence
2. Story Sharing Circle
•Duration: 45 minutes
•Attendees are invited to share memories, experiences, and stories
•Supportive guidance by a licensed therapist
•Safe, judgment-free environment
3. Healing Activities
•Duration: 30 minutes
•Creative Expression: Art therapy, journaling, or crafting a tribute
•Mindfulness Practices: Breathing exercises, meditation, or guided reflection
4. Educational Session
•Duration: 30 minutes
•Domestic violence prevention and awareness tips
•Resources for legal, emotional, and financial support
•Interactive Q&A with professionals
5. Legacy Honoring Ceremony
•Duration: 20 minutes
•Lighting candles or planting memorial trees
•Reading of names and personal tributes
•Closing with a collective pledge to advocate for a violence-free future
Purple Legacy Newsletter
Purple Legacy Remembrance Newsletter
We invite attendees to honor their loved ones further by contributing to our Purple Legacy Remembrance Newsletter. This monthly publication shares:
•Pictures and Stories of loved ones lost to domestic violence
•Personal Tributes from family and friends
•Community Highlights and upcoming events
By participating, families ensure that their loved ones’ legacies live on, inspiring hope and resilience in others..
Workshop Details
•Frequency: Monthly (Every 3rd Saturday)
•Location: Paint the City Purple Community Center / Virtual Option
•Cost: Free (Donations welcome to support domestic violence prevention initiatives)
Support Our Mission
Your generosity helps us continue offering these workshops and maintaining our Purple Legacy Remembrance Newsletter. We accept donations to cover:
•Operating Expenses
•Upkeep of Our Website
Every contribution ensures that we can sustain these vital services and expand our reach, offering hope and healing to more families.
Benefits of Attendance
•Healing through shared experiences
•Professional guidance in coping with grief
•Strengthened community bonds
•Ongoing remembrance and advocacy opportunities
Together, we can create a world where the legacies of those lost continue to inspire change, healing, and hope.
